Finally... Hope for Parents in Pain What parent doesn't want their children to grow up to be happy, responsible adults? Yet despite parents' best efforts, most heartfelt prayers, and most loving environments, some kids never successfully make the transition to independently functioning adulthood. Following her own journey, Allison Bottke developed a tough-love approach to parenting adult children that helps both you and your child by focusing on setting you free from the repeated pain of your adult child's broken promises, lies, and deception. Setting Boundaries(R) with Your Adult Children offers practical hope and healing through S. A. N. I. T. Y. --a six-step program to help parents regain control in their homes and their lives. S = STOP Enabling, STOP Blaming Yourself, and STOP the Flow of MoneyA = Assemble a Support GroupN = Nip Excuses in the BudI = Implement Rules/BoundariesT = Trust Your InstinctsY = Yield Everything to GodAs you love your child with arms and heart wide open, know that no matter what happens you are never alone. God is in control and will be with you.