PLEASE READ THIS FIRST!: This book was written for women who are already familiar with Rori's foundational book, "Have The Relationship You Want", and was created for and requested by Rori's online readers as a collection of previously published articles, in solid book form. We realize it was a mistake to publish this book without making that clear, and some of the reviews spurred us to clarify this. If you're looking for something substantial and foundational about dating and relationships, this is not the best Rori Raye book to start with. If you have already purchased this book, and felt disappointed, please write to Rori at coachrori. com and she will do her best to make it right by providing something more substantial and helpful.